Letting Go of External Validation

Enneagram Threes, often called the achievers, are skilled at perceiving the emotions of others but struggle to connect with their own feelings. Raised in a world where success was prized over self, they learned to seek validation through accomplishments. Yet, this pursuit left them hollow, for it was not their true selves but their achievements that were celebrated.

They thrive on success, embracing roles that shield their true selves. Life, to a Three, is a competition where winning is paramount. They wear different masks effortlessly, adapting to any situation to be accepted. Some call a Three "Mr. Perfect," a title earned through unwavering success in all endeavors.

Yet, this pressure to excel births a temptation towards deceit. Truth is bent, not broken, to fit the narrative of success. In this race for worth, Threes can lose touch with their desires and feelings, unsure of what truly matters.

But at their best, Threes let go of this external validation. They discover their true selves, becoming genuine and benevolent. Liberated from the relentless pursuit of success, they find a life rich in love, wonder, and authenticity.

May you, like the Threes, shed the masks of achievement
to discover the genuine beauty within,
embracing a life rich in love and authenticity.

In letting go of the chase for external validation,
may you find the true worth that resides in your heart.

In a world of masks and achievements,
Threes navigate the dance of perception,
Reading hearts yet veiling their own.

Raised in the echo of success,
Their worth measured in accolades,
They chase validation in fleeting triumphs.

Mr. Perfect, they say,
Adapting to every room,
A different face for every crowd.

Truth, a malleable ally,
Bending to the demands of success,
Yet leaving whispers of doubt.

But in letting go,
They find the richness of self,
Genuine, benevolent, and free.

No longer the slave to success,
They embrace the banquet of authenticity,
Where love and wonder weave their tale.