Belonging doesn’t start with judgment—it begins with invitation. Too many systems push people away, demanding conformity before acceptance. That isn’t how spiritual growth happens. When acceptance comes first, it softens defenses and opens the heart. Inclusion is not approval of harmful behavior; it is a commitment to walk together toward change. Pretending that everyone has it figured out only creates more distance. The table is set for those willing to question, reflect, and begin again. Rejection hardens people, but acceptance makes transformation possible. Belonging requires active engagement, not passive agreement. In ritual and relationship, people affirm their commitment to the path. This is a journey of unlearning and renewal. Each gathering becomes a reminder: the heart is still in this, and the mission is still worth choosing.
May acceptance open the heart
and make transformation possible
in all who seek a new way of being.
(inspired by Brian D. McLaren, The Secret Message of Jesus)